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sometimes almost as good as getting to travel is the getting excited before part… the planning out the days and anticipating all the things you’ll get to do + see. i’m in that mode right now. for the next few weeks dave + i have the pleasure of photographing in greece, and then we are lucky enough to be visiting my families in both turkey and the uk! we haven’t been in the uk since we lived there together five years ago.. i haven’t seen my family from turkey for over ten years now, and dave has never even met them in person, so we are pretty excited! we’ve been looking forward to this trip for a while now, but it feels surreal that it’s already here?!

me + my grandma // england

i’ve been thinking a lot about the last time i’ve been in these places + seen these people. the last time we were in england, we were just married and were working as teachers and pretty much didn’t have a clue! it was that year that we fell in love with photography. it was only five years ago, but feels like a lifetime. the last time i was in turkey was when i was fourteen years old! definitely a lot has changed since then, even though i’m sure that i thought i had life and myself figured out at that ripe old age (don’t we all?). mostly when i think back to that person i was, i see someone who was pretty guarded around others. i observed a lot but i think i was also pretty passive, and i think this was because i was afraid. i hope not to be that way anymore.

at nineteen, i traveled to mexico and spent some of my time there staying with a mexican family. one of my clearest memories is coming back to the house one night after a long + hot day doing sports programs for kids, and sitting on the floor of the living room with the father, who i hadn’t seen much of up to that point. we sat for maybe an hour, him asking me many questions about my life growing up, what canada was like, what i hoped to do in the future. he told me about himself, his life, and his hopes for his daughter who was around my age. his wife, who didn’t speak any english at all but kept me really well fed :) sat and listened to the conversation which continued until 11 or 12 at night with a smile on her face. i remember whenever there was a lull in the conversation, he would ask me ‘don’t you have any more questions to ask me??’ and that has stuck with me. i think maybe because it was the first time i can remember ever really finding out about a complete stranger in that way, and i think it awakened me to be more brave and ask more questions. and now i feel like i can’t get enough of hearing people’s stories. i can’t wait to listen for hours and soak up stories from the people i care so much about as we go on this trip.

me + my babaanne // turkey

 

i’m pretty lucky as we’ll be seeing all four of my grandparents! growing up without any family around the corner makes every chance i get to spend time with them pretty special. although it’s been a hectic couple of weeks preparing to leave our office and make sure we are all up to date with our work, it’s also been fun to dream and plan and get excited for this next little adventure….

i’d say i’m just about this excited:

hoping to post some updates as we go this time around.. we’ll see if the wi-fi gods smile down on us, so be sure to check back! can’t wait to share with you all what we see. also, thanking you kindly in advance for your patience on emails and such while we’re away. i promise we’ll try as best we can but we might be a few days. :) cheers, big ears!

when you find someone to laugh with // cherie + justin

laughter is an inexhaustible resource that we all share. they say a couple that laughs together, stays together, and i think that’s completely true. you’ve got to be able to laugh at yourself. these guys laugh a lot together… they go out of their way to make each other laugh, in a way that i think most of us have left behind sometime in our youth, and i love that. i love the thought that one day cherie and justin will be old, and the landscape of the young faces that you see now will have changed into faces with many laugh lines that they’ll have given each other over the years in between. gosh i just think that’s beautiful, hey? dave + i hope this weekend brings you all some laughs with the people you love. xo, jenn

may 2013 // toronto, canada

travel essentials!

we’ve been so super lucky that our job has taken us to some great places over the past three years, whether that be across the country or just beyond our own backyard. the joy it fills us with to be able to experience life where others call home. as well as getting to join in the excitement of two people getting married, we also usually get to talking about places we’ve been and we often get to hear plans for trips and honeymoons and the amazing places people are planning to see. one thing i’d always encourage people to do is to plan for a honeymoon after their wedding.. there’s nothing like having that space together to slow down and settle back into your groove as a couple again. it doesn’t have to be expensive — a roadtrip to a nearby city for a few days, an apartment listed on air bnb for cheap, a cabin in the wilderness borrowed for a few days from a friend — we’ve even had a couple who went on a canoe trip together after their wedding (um, amazing!).

we’ve very fortunate that our work is taking us overseas in a few days, and we’ll be taking some time for ourselves while we are there too! so now it is us who are dreaming of the places we’ll be seeing and looking forward to being able to reconnect, we can’t wait. here are a few things that we’ll be sure not to leave home without:

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reading materials. i don’t read a lot of magazines at home, so when we travel i always make sure to get the most recent copy of my favourite to be able to read as we go — on the plane, over breakfast while we’re there.. i’ll be trying to get my hands on oh comely before we go for sure. the articles inside are like stories and i just love the feeling of the whole magazine. i think i might also pack our copy of my family and other animals — i’ve read it before but it’s one of my faves, and it takes place in the same part of the world where we’re headed, so i think that’ll be fun!

ipad. and for everything else, there’s the ipad. :) i read my first e-book on the ipad the other week, so i think we’ll be loading it up with a few more books for those long plane rides. we are also big fans of podcasts, so we’ll have a few of those on there too. our favourites are this american life (voice crush on ira glass!) and radiolab (link goes to our fave episode so far).

notebooks. i’ve got two — a journal, that i’m going to try to write in every day. the last big trip we went on, i barely wrote about what happened each day and my thoughts, and i actually super regret that. the other big notebook is for ideas. i don’t know what it is, but something about being in a new place or staring out the window as scenery passes by and my mind totally wanders.

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a sense of wonder and an open state of mind. an equal mix of loose plans but also the willingness to be spontaneous. also, healthy snacks. this might not seem like it fits, but trust me, when hunger strikes there’s nothing better than having something healthy and familiar and filling in your back pocket. all of our fights while traveling together have traced back to food, really i am not kidding! we actually refer to it as being ‘hangry’ — angry because you’re hungry. so this is one thing we’ve learned from experience ;)

kathryn & dean get married

but there comes a time to see what it looks like from the dance floor // stephen chbosky

first dean was up above the crowd and passed a glass of beer, cheers went off and arms went up and everyone swayed to the music. everyone was smiling, everyone was laughing. next, kathryn was hoisted up onto someone’s shoulders and was right there next to him, her husband as of eight-ish or so hours, laughing, her eyes crinkling in the way that they do. up there on their friends’ shoulders they kissed and laughed and raised their hands, and watched from above everyone they love around them. it was one of those moments that seemed to stretch on longer than most moments do, and nobody could stop smiling. kathryn and dean seem to bring out the best in people. they are endearing and words and laughter come easy to them. they are people who are honest from the start and through everything. i’m so glad we got to meet them and document this day. dean put it the best when he explained about love, and how it is about finding someone who’s weirdness matches up with yours, and deciding to join forces together. and i think a wedding is a time to get out of the normal living of life and a time to see the life that’s been made around you of smiling people supporting you and celebrating with you. it’s that feeling that makes a wedding pretty amazing.

this is how the night ended on such a great day leading up to the final hurrah on the dance floor. here’s the full story of the day these two lovely people got married . . . keep reading »